During a debate between Alister McGrath and Richard Dawkins, Dawkins questioned the logic behind thanking God for one answered prayer in the midst of so many that are left unanswered. The eye of faith, he rightly contended, seems to focus on the one child miraculously saved from a disaster but ignore the thousands of others who were not so fortunate, to focus on the one answered prayer in the sea of fervent, faithful, yet unanswered prayers.
In today’s world, it indeed takes the eye of faith to see God’s faithfulness to prayer. For example, disasters, both natural and human-made, do not seem to relent despite the countless prayers of the faithful. So much suffering seems to stagger on unabated. Though I believe God does act on prayers, He does not seem to do so often. Why not?
I believe this problem is what Dietrich Bonhoeffer had in mind when, in his Letters and Papers from Prison, he wrote that “God would have us know that we must live as men who manage our lives without him.” Humanity has turned its back on God, and God has granted humanity’s wish by allowing us to live without Him. God allows Himself, in a certain sense, to be “pushed out of the world.” To see the suffering in the world is then to see our need of God. On the other hand, then, to see the one child saved is to see God’s intention for the thousands of others. That answer will not silence many critics, and will not, in itself, offer much comfort to those in pain.
The Christian response does not end there, however. As God is pushed out of the world, so God becomes one with us through Jesus Christ. God is present to us in suffering and weakness because we have rejected His power and strength. He experiences the struggle of a creation without a Creator, even experiencing the height of our abandonment in His death. As Bonhoeffer continues, “Man’s religiosity makes him look in his distress to the power of God in the world: God is the deus ex machina. The Bible directs man to God’s powerlessness and suffering; only the suffering God can help.”
And so, I would add, only the suffering church can help. Not all of our prayers will be answered, at least not in the ways and with the timing we wish them to be answered. Not everyone will respond to God’s love. Not everyone will find their pain eased. In this sense, we must continue to struggle as those who have pushed God out of the world and so live without Him. But we can now pray with the knowledge that God is present in our pain and with the hope that God is even now setting things right. That knowledge should drive us to be present with people in their suffering, to love, serve, and pray for them as Christ loved, served, and prayed for us, no matter the consequences. Our prayers, then, may not be effective in any immediately perceivable sense, but the ultimate point of prayer is not to be effective. The point is to be faithfully dependent on the One who will be effective in setting things right.

